Sig snob
I carry a P229 DAK in .40 Smith, using a DeSantis sheath. I'm not a big guy, but I haven't had any issue carrying discreetly. My wife and kids don't even notice most of the time. I even manage to pull it off with a t-shirt and shorts, albeit the t-shirt can't be see through, and I use the same riggers belt with cargo shorts that I use in uniform with my DCUs or ACUs. I love, love, love the DAK trigger. I can't drive nails with it like the Kimber I carried as my sidearm in Afghanistan, but I don't have to mess with any decocking levers, external safeties, or potential questions about "hair triggers" (not that I've ever had to group anyone). One motion to fire the gun, everytime keeps a knuckledragger like myself happy. My log shows I've put 3,000 rounds through it, of which about half is doing reload drills (one mag w/one round, one mag with two - shoot far target, reload, double tap close target - rinse and repeat). ZERO stoppages. I don't know that I will ever carry anything else.
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