Slow your roll, Unfettered... it IS uncomfortable to OC at first because it's far from the norm. When I started OCing, I didn't want to be harassed or hassled by the police or civilians or anyone for that matter. I wanted to carry in a more comfortable way (summer weather/clothes) and knew it was legal to do so, and I did. It IS uncomfortable thinking that everyone's eyes will be on you, nervously watching your every move, unsure of your intent, etc. It IS uncomfortable knowing that OCing in some places will likely result in a MWAG call, not knowing if it'd be handled properly by the 911 operator, and resulting in police response in which case they'll be showing up with the preconcieved notion that you're a BG when you're not. It's unsettling! You don't know what to expect.
That said, I've been nearly full-time OC for a little over a year now. The concern with how people will react to it is quelled by experience. The concern over police reaction is quelled by experience and knowledge of the firearms laws that you're abiding by. CC is easy - you look like everyone else. OC is an appendage. With experience comes comfort. I have yet to have a negative police encounter, and the worst reaction I've gotten from the "public" is some glaring. Well, actually, there was a couple that changed tables and moved away from my wife and I at a restaurant. That's it. But at first? Definitely nervous.
Were you never nervous upon trying something new to you? Let alone something that is new to you, everyone seeing that you're doing it, but not knowing if everyone would think you're looney toons? C'mon.
BTW - don't you mean sheepdog, not wolf? The wolves are the ones who are AFTER the sheep, remember
I guess the difference is I educated myself on the laws by looking them up myself instead of going by what everyone else says. It provided me the confidence to OC without concern for the legality of it. It also provided me the confidence to stand up to a LEO who tried to criminalize my OC once.
As for what other people think, I really don't care. I lost respect for the opinion of the public at large a long time ago, you know, back in school. The way I looked at it from the start was if they are scared, let them be, it's not my problem. If they can't reason it out by realizing that a criminal doesn't stand patiently in line with his sidearm in full view, then I guess they'll figure it out once I walk out the door and no one got shot.
Some say, "Oh we should be concerned, because if enough of them are scared then it'll ruin it for the rest of us." Let me be the first to say that's bull, 90% of the people out there are too concerned about the next episode of their favorite TV show or what they're doing that weekend to care about phoning legislators or trying to start bills to outlaw something that has been a part of my particular state's constitution and heritage far longer than anyone who's reading this has been alive. Good luck with that.
I never worried about the police because I know I'm not going to put my hand anywhere near my gun if an encounter occurs so I'm not going to get shot. Simple. Except for the one, all of my LEO encounters have been positive.
One time I had taken my grandmother to the hospital in her car. Turns out they wanted to keep her overnight because of some medication they were giving her, well I didn't want to take her car back because I wanted her to have it in the morning so she could leave without waiting for someone to come pick her up. So I called a friend to come pick me up and then realized on the way out the front door that my handgun was in her glove box. Problem, I need her keys to get my gun, but I can't take my gun into the hospital to give her keys back. Solution, I asked the LEO in the lobby to follow me out to the car and hold my handgun for me so I could go back in and give her keys back to her. He happily complied and until my friend got there, we had a great conversation about handgun models and he ended up writing down what model handgun I had because he liked it so much, he wanted one. Confidence is key.
Actually I have a problem with being nervous when doing something new. I tend to throw myself into it full on. First time on motorcycle, few hours later, low sided it. First time on jet ski, few hours later, I did half a back flip off of a wake and it landed on me.
I had a few people around me think I was off my rocker....at first. Then an incident occurred that had the effect of completely changing all of their minds, then they all realized why I carry. In fact, my sister who was vehemently against handguns now owns one. They suddenly realized that I was the one that was spot on and they were the ones living in a fantasy world where the police will always be able to protect you.
My point of the original post was that it is your right and if you act scared to exercise it, if you allow public opinion to deter you, then you leave it open to be taken away. If you are timid about OCing, then you will probably be timid about using it when the time comes and that will cost you your life.
As for the "wolf" comment, yeah I kinda didn't know the proper vernacular when I posted that, oops. Um, let me go back and edit that lol. Thanks for the heads up.