BC1
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A very astute, well thought out post. Hits this issue right on the head.Good lord ... what the heck is happening to this planet ... cannot imagine what the parents of these children are going through.
But I can imagine this -
I can imagine being asked to represent my most dearly held beliefs about gun rights and self-defense before a gathering of the parents of these kindergartners, all of us sitting in a room festooned with photos of their lost four and five year-olds. I can imagine them looking me dead in the eyes, having no preconceived notions about what I might say, just politely waiting to hear me pontificate about how the Second Amendment protects my right to own my M4 and a couple thousand rounds of ammunition.
I imagine leaving without uttering a word.
It's not fair, in fact it's an unspeakable shame - 80 million of us didn't do this. But WTF are we supposed to say to these people, and millions of like-minded others all over the country?
The sicko murdering cowards like this perp today are destroying us. We are sinking into the ocean, even while legislation in some parts of the country (Illinois, for one) seems to suggest we're making progress.
I can multitask - I can feel anguish and pray for these children and parents, while feeling real despair about our own diminishing liberties. I'm almost out of gas, out of hope.
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Back in June my closest neighbor, a good friend to my wife and disabled female LEO, took her own life. I heard the "pop" while working out by the barn. My wife walked up the road to see why the police were there. She called me yelling "get up here now." This was a 47 year-old beautiful girl. A great neighbor who cooked for me when I had heart surgery and spent countless time in our home over the past 15 years. She had severe spinal injuries and surgery and was in constant pain. Back in May she asked if I had a box of .38's she could have as her ammo was old. I gave her a box of Speer Gold Dot HP. She used one of those rounds to end her life. What could I say to her husband? I was broken up by it. I haven't taught any gun classes since. Don't know if I'll ever teach another one. Her husband actually comforted me... he understood the gun wasn't the problem. He told me not to feel bad as I was just being a good neighbor at the time. But what do you say to these family members?