Hello all! I've been lurking around the forum for a few weeks now and looking into getting my NC concealed carry for around a month or two. Why? See below:
1. Prior to my presence on this [safe] planet, my mother (LT Colonel, Airborne and special forces unit) was home alone in her bedroom. A man entered the home, came to my mom's bedroom, and stood in her doorway with what she described as a "threatening look." My mom rushed to her nightstand, grabbed a loaded .25 caliber, and said if he took another step she "wouldn't stop shooting until the police came." He left. Police tracked him down later.
2. I was 12 yrs old and home with my mom on the couch. A man looked through the small windows next to the front door and saw us. He began kicking hard at the front door (double dead bolted, but made a hell of a noise). My lab went psycho with the loudest and scariest sounding bark I'd ever heard. Without a word my mom and I both ran to the bedroom, where I grabbed a .38 revolver and my mom grabbed a shotgun. The man fled upon hearing the dogs but even at 12 I knew I was going to shoot every round I had before I let someone take the life of a family member. Police came. Guy was never tracked down.
3. Years ago I was away at school and my mom was home alone. A man started kicking trash over and throwing things on the front porch. He opened the [unlocked] front door and began screaming nonsense. According to my mom he was under heavy use of drugs and began advancing her direction. Instantly my mom opened the closet, pulled out the [unloaded] 12 gauge and pointed it. He froze and my mom held him at gun point (still unloaded) until the police arrived.
4. Today.....yes, TODAY I was leaving work and at the very corner of the parking lot I started to see a situation escalate in front of me (distance approx. 20 yards). At first I couldn't tell if the two ladies were yelling in excitement or anger. Suddenly the girl hopped out of her car, extended a metal baton, and began beating the hood of the girl behind her (I was perpendicular to the situation because I was the next car waiting to "zipper in" line). I got out of my car, ran full speed at her, but she had already broken the driver side window and was beating the driver. Luckily I had advanced fast enough and made my presence known that I would harm her, to scare the girl with the baton and she fled. Wait...here's the kicker...all of this happened in front of a security guard who just stood there with his mouth open.
So there you have it. Four isolated instances. 1) in a bad area 2) out in the "boondocks" 3) suburbs in a good neighborhood and 4) white collar business park.
Just because you have a gun on you, doesn't mean you want to kill bad guys. The first three instances didn't require a shot and the last wouldn't have even had me draw if I was carrying, but tell me that the world today is a "safe place" and I know you're just kidding yourself.