Have stayed away for a bit-have other places that I hang my hat in. We, like any family are going to have disagreements, squabbles, and conflicts. It is up to us to get along. We can chose to live in a fuss or settle our differences in a gentlemanly manner. To stay in a fuss shows great immaturity and lack of love both to ourselves and others. To seek peace and harmony denotes a caring personality. So what do we want to be perceived as??? There is an old adage: be careful when arguing with a fool--a bystander may not be able to tell who is who. Not pointing fingers so don't get "yer hackles up". Merely pointing out that we may need each other badly sometime so let's try a bit harder to get along. For years a gent from Denver, Co. and I bumped heads(often badly). We met near Charleston, SC a few yrs back and found that we actually liked each other. You see, we have common goals, common ambitions, and sadly common enemies. We all want security for our families. Especially as we face an uncertain future. Hope we all get to meet at some time but if not then I'll see you across the keyboards--even you butt heads--lol.