I have no idea what it means to "care too much" about something you care about in the first place, but Bikenut's
level of caring is irrelevant to him being right. Whether he cares "too much" or not at all doesn't matter, he's still right.
A couple of years ago another member here posted a link that included a list of things/people that the author struggled with being polite and well-mannered towards when discussing them. I can't post the actual name of the piece because it has a banned word in the title, which also caused a problem with posting a link because that banned word was included in it. It sounds a lot like the non-word, "azzholes," as-in, "When Azzholes Collide." The author was writing in first-person, basically acknowledging that he saw himself as one side of such an azzhole collision. The blog is closed now so I can't direct you to the whole piece, but one thing the author said in it I did quote when I responded to its posting, and I think it fits quite well with what Bikenut is trying to say, though I don't think Bikenut is an azzhole, nor do I think he presents his arguments like an azzhole would. He presents them as someone who is committed to his position on sound, rights-supporting principle, and that's the subject of the one part of the list I quoted
in the post I'm talking about:
It is false witness for anyone to suggest that Bikenut is an advocate for gun free zones. His solution to businesses that make themselves gun free is to not patronize their business. That is how everyone's rights are respected and upheld. Sneaking a gun past the unknowing owner/manager of a business who has stated their rules forbidding it is the height of disrespect for their rights. You don't have to like them, you just have to be willing to defend the individual rights of people you hate by either disarming before you go in, or go somewhere else. You have no
rightful expectation of a business owner to be more considerate of your convenience than they are of their own property rights. I've been a business owner before, and I'd gladly lose a customer's patronage while defending my own rights rather than keep them at the expense of my rights. If you can't accept this argument on that basis, then you're not interested in anybody else's rights but your own, which makes you a selfish brat, not a considerate and rights-supporting adult.
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