First let me say, A gun is not at piece of jewelry, a belt to hold up our pants, or a fashion statement. A guns intended purpose (nature) was to kill something or someone, period. Sure we go plinking and target practicing, but that is only to accomplish one intended purpose to become a "sharp shooter" so that we hit our intended target. That target when I carry a gun, is not a bottle, it is not a golfer, it is a person. I have to say, your fear "Scare the Hell out of me", tells me that it is you, not me who should not be carrying a hand gun. It is a gun's nature to gain, the greatest respect from those who are around. I don't carry a gun to gain respect or fear... it is the gun that does that. That is why Loosely liberals, have such a "Fear" of guns, they don't understand the "Respect" a gun deserves. As a US Army Veteran who was trained literally to use this to "Kill" people for purposes still not quite clear to many. However, to stay on point. I'm saying a gun is or should be a peace keeper not a war mechanism. It is only to be used in absolute last resort scenerios, however the one who is carrying it, may have to decide instantaneously to use it for self preservation and the safety of others. The reason we carry a gun is for that purpose only. (period) But, no matter how pretty your gun is "Stainless", polished, studded, pearl handles, it deserves the utmost "Respect", from everyone in the room weither they know it or not. "It is the "Law", in that moment of need." For example, in the theater shooting, if someone would have been packing that night when all those live where lost, someone could have instantly stepped up, and ended the matter. No Judge, No legislation, legislators, police approval necessary! You take out and eliminate the "Target", to bring safety and life to those who lost it. You the one who steps up, then becomes the Highest Law of the land via, your "Gun"... which you couldn't have done without it. So YES! A gun is the "Law" an deserves an extreme amount of respect and with that said, I have a tendency to give the person (who is carrying one) an almost equal amount of respect. If you have a problem with that, yep you better start talking to your "Creator", cause he is always our final Judge not me!