longslide10
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The one somebody else holds
I think you're asking the wrong question. You need to ask which handgun or handguns have been proven to be effective in self-defense situations and then you need to ask yourself what you need to do to learn to tame this beast. If you do not feel that you can handle an effective handgun then you need to explore other possibilities for self-defense.
What exactly do you mean by an "effective handgun?" I hope you're not suggesting that if she can't handle at least a 9mm (or whatever you deem appropriate) she should stick with pepper spray? How demoralizing. An excellent way to drive people away from shooting. I really hope I read that wrong.
By "effective handgun" I'm referring to a weapon and cartridge that have historically proven to be reliable one-shot fight stoppers. .
By "effective handgun" I'm referring to a weapon and cartridge that have historically proven to be reliable one-shot fight stoppers. There is plenty of empirical data regarding which cartridges are adequate for the purpose and there is no need for me to reiterate readily available data. If the truth were known, I would have to say that a 9 mm is a little light for the job. However, it does provide some minimum level of acceptable performance. I'm definitely suggesting that anyone who is unable to carry such a weapon would be much wiser to seek an alternate means of self-defense. There are several other viable options in addition to pepper spray. I do not think that being honest with one's self should be demoralizing. I'm not here to recruit people to be gunowners. I'm a very firm believer in fighting back against crime, however, I do not think that the firearm is the appropriate weapon for everyone.
By "effective handgun" I'm referring to a weapon and cartridge that have historically proven to be reliable one-shot fight stoppers. There is plenty of empirical data regarding which cartridges are adequate for the purpose and there is no need for me to reiterate readily available data. If the truth were known, I would have to say that a 9 mm is a little light for the job. However, it does provide some minimum level of acceptable performance. I'm definitely suggesting that anyone who is unable to carry such a weapon would be much wiser to seek an alternate means of self-defense. There are several other viable options in addition to pepper spray. I do not think that being honest with one's self should be demoralizing. I'm not here to recruit people to be gunowners. I'm a very firm believer in fighting back against crime, however, I do not think that the firearm is the appropriate weapon for everyone.
Ok, so I'm a 120 lb woman with tiny wrists. If all I could handle was a .380 or even a .22, you'd say I was better off with some other non-lethal self-defense method? I'm not a physical match for anybody, and non-lethal options all have a chance of failure. Or heck, incapacitating me. What if I was 89 years old, and couldn't handle more than a .380. I also wouldn't be able to handle pepper spray (with respiratory issues it could kill me), a stun gun, a taser, or any other form of physical self-defense (obviously). It's not a .45, so might as well not bother? People have physical limitations, and maybe they don't want to broadcast them on the internet.
How about a suggestion for a lower recoil gun, and then tell them to practice rapid follow-up shots, and suggesting possible alternatives they may want to consider rather than simply telling them their preferred choice is not good enough, if they can't perform up to your level don't even bother, do something else? That is demoralizing. Whether you meant it or not, informing someone their choice isn't good enough with no workable and effective alternative is very discouraging. Especially to someone new to the game.
So. What do you suggest, and why is it better than a gun of any kind? I'm all about informed choices, and have explained to my sister who will not use a gun the benefits and limitations of every non-lethal self-defense product I could think of. I've convinced her she needs a backup to her pepper spray; she's debating close-range choices. My choice would still be a .22, preferably with a close-quarters backup option. A firearm might not be best for everyone, but sometimes it's the only option in their experience they can come up with. It's a bit much to say go big or go home without offering another viable option.
I think you're asking the wrong question. You need to ask which handgun or handguns have been proven to be effective in self-defense situations and then you need to ask yourself what you need to do to learn to tame this beast. If you do not feel that you can handle an effective handgun then you need to explore other possibilities for self-defense.
By "effective handgun" I'm referring to a weapon and cartridge that have historically proven to be reliable one-shot fight stoppers. There is plenty of empirical data regarding which cartridges are adequate for the purpose and there is no need for me to reiterate readily available data. If the truth were known, I would have to say that a 9 mm is a little light for the job. However, it does provide some minimum level of acceptable performance. I'm definitely suggesting that anyone who is unable to carry such a weapon would be much wiser to seek an alternate means of self-defense. There are several other viable options in addition to pepper spray. I do not think that being honest with one's self should be demoralizing. I'm not here to recruit people to be gunowners. I'm a very firm believer in fighting back against crime, however, I do not think that the firearm is the appropriate weapon for everyone.
Which caliber is that? I don't think there is any handgun caliber with a one shot stop history.
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I think the 45acp has the reputation as a one shot stopper. Talk to some ex and current military
Any pistol cartridge can be a one shot stopper, a 22LR to a 500 mag, but all the variables have filled up 8 pages of post's so far, personal preference would be a 45, but I do carry about anything, the new lightweight super fast rds have got my interest lately, especialy for carrying indoors where you need to be mindful of over penatration