Thanks FBMG Smithy for your prompt reply!
You might make a revolver admirer out of me yet. The Ruger SP101® revolvers are smaller framed guns which still can handle powerful .357 Magnum cartridges, which may still be a larger cal @ .357, especially with the magnum power/charge or just the .38 Special they also fire. Depending upon the grains/push/cartridge length & propellent mixture a .38 is pretty close to a .40-Cal, a round my largest pistol the Beretta 96 FS Centurion fires, and my favorite range fire weapon with a recoil that jars my hand slightly with each shot. After 100 rounds of S & W ball I have to move to a 2-handed firing stance when my best firing stance is single hand extended, 45 degree oblique with one hand behind the small of my back. (Classic competition stance but not a CQC low crouch knees bent military/cop favorite one) Ruger is a brand name that equates to quality build, reliability and design, the triple-locking cylinder mechanism are nice touches. Do you know of any good reputation common in use revolvers in the .22 or 9mm range? Having shot plenty of M9's/Beretta 92's as my Army issued side-arm & my XD-9 as a Vet, I know the recoil is minimal, now if there were a good brand .22 or 9mm revolver, doesn't matter what the chamber capacity is as this will never leave the range or be used by her in a nation where even getting caught with a .22 CO2 or pump-action pellet gun is a big fine, a criminal record and maybe even jail, probation (loss of a 25 year good job) or all the things that make G.B. a Royal pain to protect yourself living there. This will be (hopefully) something she looks forward to with every visit. If she loves one model I will buy it for her, and keep it safe for her visits and her use only. I wish she could handle any semi-automatic, but if she can't even cock, load or clear my smallest pistol I doubt she'll ever graduate to any SA pistol. She tried sliding my Beretta open, didn't move a CM and just shook her head :-(
I have a gut feeling she will empty 5 or 6 rounds with the Ruger SP101, she'll claim it kicks back too much and lose interest fast. When she was my 1st real love in London we met at 15, a year later we had a stupid fight over nothing that either of us can recall over what, so she punched me in my (then) lean and firm flat abdominal wall, it fractured a few small bones in her wrist and I didn't even feel winded. But I took her to the hospital anyway in much pain. She was in a short arm cast for 6 weeks which really hurt me much more than her temper-tap ever did every time I saw her wearing it I felt 'bad-dog'. Now with a 20 y/o grown son, who probably would have been mine if I had stayed in London not split to the U.S. and 35 years since that episode she still has a wrist that is only 4.5" in circumference. As a teacher the hardest 'push' she does with that petit hand most days is a #2 pencil grading homework or touch-typing on a key-board! I think that covers the limitations I have to accommodate for her desire to be among the very few woman in Norfolk, England to lay claim to having ever shot a pistol and never did any military service where she would have learned to fire much more than pistols.
My Regards,
Canis-Lupus