I believe another problem is that people do not nearly have the common sense people had before. When I was a kid with my realistic toy guns, it wouldn't even occur to me to keep holding onto it if a police officer said to drop it. It wouldn't occur to me to point it anyone that I wasn't playing "cops and robbers" with, especially a real cop.
When an authority figure told me that an action of mine was wrong and I continued to do it, there were real consequences. Today, I see kids doing the same stupid things over and over again and a typical response I hear from their parents, "oh, kids will be kids" along with a shrug and a smile. This is not the parenting I remember when I was a kid.
Saying the toy is the fault in these cases is like saying real guns are the fault of people committing murder. The "gun did it" mentality doesn't fly here with toy guns either.
If I were that kid, minding my own business, daydreaming about having some fun while walking to a friends house, carrying a toy and not having the first damn clue that the cops just pulled up behind me, the LAST thing that would occur to me was the the cops were screaming at ME. Maybe I don't connect the dots very quickly but if I had a TOY and a cop started screaming to drop the GUN, I'd think there was somebody else with a REAL GUN.
Can't wait for the video and recordings but it sure sounds like it was 1) holler at the kid without identifying themselves as cops, 2)jump out of the car, and then when the kid turned to see WTF the commotion was, 3) he was shot dead still wondering WTF was happening.
This wasn't a kid doing stupid ****, this was a kid being a kid. And as pointed out, you can't turn your body to address the cops without whatever in your hands following. No info yet as to whether the muzzle was up, down, or otherwise. The police statement said the officer was in fear of his life and that he believed the suspect was
about to point the airsoft rifle at them'.
Well, 'about' just isn't good enough. $.02
Edit: and to answer the OP's thread title "Do we really need TOY GUNS?", not addressing the OP specifically, the answer to that is we don't really need a lot of things, but we live in America where we have the freedom and liberty to enjoy our personal interests. That it is guns, knives, quilting, or any other hobby should not matter.
For what its worth, I'll post this clip of a cop jumping out of his car, hollering to put the knife down, and then shooting a man in the back. Threat? To who?
Seattle Police Release Dashcam Video Of Woodcarver's Shooting - YouTube
I spent a little time with my 14yo daughter last night explaining in a little more detail why am I virtually always armed and talking about a few of these incidents. She was speechless at this video.