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I saw this posted somewhere , but am not sure if it was on here or another site. If it's a duplicate of a thread already started on USA Carry, moderators please feel free to delete it.
So does anyone else have to deal with an anti-gun spouce/wife like I do? Her mother "brainwashed" her against guns years ago when she was a child, and she now refuses to look at, touch, learn to shoot, or even go out with me if I am carrying a firearm (I do have my KY CCL). Her opinion is that "You are only looking for trouble if you carry a gun".
Her mother told me over the years that "I will not have a gun in my house. Your father-in-law does not own any guns, and you shouldn't either!" This was the line I got for years from her, and she had resigned herself to the fact that if an armed intruder broke into her house, she was going to let the perp shoot her instead of trying to defend herself. This is now my wife's thought process as well. Go figure, I sure as shooting can't
When my Farther-in-Law passed away in 1985, Mom-in-Law was going through some of his things, including four old Air Force footlockers he had had in the service. To her utter surprise, shock, and disgust, she found four handguns that Dad-in-Law had in the footlockers along with a Remington 870 12 guage pump shotgun. To put it mildly, she went ape-s*it crazy, called my wife screaming about them, and I had to go over and immediately remove them from her house. That really weren't so bad - I wound up with five new firearms!
Now that my Mother-In-Law has passed away (Auugust 2012), I have been trying to convince my wife to let me teach her to safely handle and shoot a pistol, as she still wants nothing to do with a shotgun or rifle. I've almost got her convinced to let me start her out shooting a Walther P22 I recently got, but she is still very hesitant and is still at "we'll wait and see".
I have been shooting firearms of all kinds since I was 6 years old, and thank God that my Dad and his friends taught me how to safely handle and shoot firearms. I'm still a lot better shot with a rifle and shotgun than I am with a pistol and revolver, but I can hit what I shoot at with a hand gun enought to get the job done. I have completed my CCL class, and have been through several local gun safety courses at the local Fish and Game Club, so I feel confident enogh that I can show my wife how to safely handle and shoot a pistol. I've about given in to suggesting that she go to a gun safety class instead of letting me teach her, but she would probably axe that with "I don't have time to do that!"
So, any others of you live with an anti-gun spouce, and how do you survive the situation? Thanks for your thoughts!
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So does anyone else have to deal with an anti-gun spouce/wife like I do? Her mother "brainwashed" her against guns years ago when she was a child, and she now refuses to look at, touch, learn to shoot, or even go out with me if I am carrying a firearm (I do have my KY CCL). Her opinion is that "You are only looking for trouble if you carry a gun".
Her mother told me over the years that "I will not have a gun in my house. Your father-in-law does not own any guns, and you shouldn't either!" This was the line I got for years from her, and she had resigned herself to the fact that if an armed intruder broke into her house, she was going to let the perp shoot her instead of trying to defend herself. This is now my wife's thought process as well. Go figure, I sure as shooting can't
When my Farther-in-Law passed away in 1985, Mom-in-Law was going through some of his things, including four old Air Force footlockers he had had in the service. To her utter surprise, shock, and disgust, she found four handguns that Dad-in-Law had in the footlockers along with a Remington 870 12 guage pump shotgun. To put it mildly, she went ape-s*it crazy, called my wife screaming about them, and I had to go over and immediately remove them from her house. That really weren't so bad - I wound up with five new firearms!
Now that my Mother-In-Law has passed away (Auugust 2012), I have been trying to convince my wife to let me teach her to safely handle and shoot a pistol, as she still wants nothing to do with a shotgun or rifle. I've almost got her convinced to let me start her out shooting a Walther P22 I recently got, but she is still very hesitant and is still at "we'll wait and see".
I have been shooting firearms of all kinds since I was 6 years old, and thank God that my Dad and his friends taught me how to safely handle and shoot firearms. I'm still a lot better shot with a rifle and shotgun than I am with a pistol and revolver, but I can hit what I shoot at with a hand gun enought to get the job done. I have completed my CCL class, and have been through several local gun safety courses at the local Fish and Game Club, so I feel confident enogh that I can show my wife how to safely handle and shoot a pistol. I've about given in to suggesting that she go to a gun safety class instead of letting me teach her, but she would probably axe that with "I don't have time to do that!"
So, any others of you live with an anti-gun spouce, and how do you survive the situation? Thanks for your thoughts!
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