Congrats on your purchase. I bought a Sig P320 as well. I really like it. As for your wife wanting a gun of her own I say let her do it. I'm an instructor and I'm seeing more women than ever which is awesome. The problem is most women come to my classes with the wrong gun. It's the same story my husband got me this and he said this is what I should have. That's irresponsible and wrong for husbands to do that. Women need to do research and ask questions go to the range rent a few guns find what is best for them. One of the most important factors will be what is she using the gun for. Is it range shooting, self defence, home protection, or conceal carry. It will be overwhelming at first, but it will empower her to make such a big decision.