Getting my first true carry handgun tomorrow. Finally decided on the XDm 3.8 compact in 9mm. Been going back and forth between it and the M&P for awhile now but just keep liking the way the xdm feels in my hand. Both seemed to shoot very well for me. Unfortunately, with my job it makes it very difficult to carry because of prohibitions at certain places, ie courthouses, hospitals, etc. but looking forward to having my permit arrive soon and having the new pistol.