there have been countless number of these threads around. i always tell them to go and rent guns or shoot friends, handle ones in gun stores. find something that fits you and that you like. there will never be one answer when you ask this question, glock guys with always insist on buying this glock or that glock and nothing else, 1911 guys will always insist on buying a 1911 because of their beauty and great grip angle, revolver guys will always insist on getting a revolver because they are "safer" than these polymer guns. i think you get the idea...