You're going to get as many answers as there are choices out there. You should list some features or things you feel you really want, such as barrel length, magazine capacity, color, if you're particular to a brand or what other firearms you may own (if you own a Glock 23 or 27 it's a no-brainer to get a 22, if you own a Springfield XDM compact get a full-size, etc), what you intend to use it for (keep it stock, mod it, compete with it, etc), and what you expect to pay.
With that said, I love my Springfield XDM 4.5" in .40S&W. The trigger is great, the feel is great.. just about everything if not everything about it is perfect. I have owned for personal use and been issued for duty use a Glock 22, and I like them as well. Or you could get a 1911... or an S&W M&P40... or an FN FNp\FNX - the list just continues.
Like you suggested in your initial post, I'd fondle every handgun the store was willing to hand me. Even better, I'd shoot every firearm I could before buying it. If you've only got Glock and Springfield dealers in your area, I'd take a look at those first. My suggestion would be to fondle what you can, go home and do some Googling (or asking here) to get reviews between the few, do some hard thinking then go back and purchase it.