Grognard Gunny
New member
Had my first somewhat serious confrontation situation in a long time last evening.
I arrived into our Church gym/social hall last night to find the current "Leader" of our Christian Men's Group (75 years old, if a day) in a shouting contest (screaming ??) with the two coaches of the Church School Boys Basketball Team. (The older around 35 +/-, the younger late 20s, both fairly physically fit.)
Ever the peacemaker, I tried to insert myself in between the two sets of antagonists to settle things down. (As it was a pretty pitiful display for supposed adults to be enguaged in.) All I got for my trouble was the older coach to "go off" on me and threaten me. I saw immediately that I had stepped into a situation wherein the older "coach" was on the point of losing complete control of himself. (i.e. His body language, rage level of his invective and general demeaner put me well on my guard.... I fully expected this guy to "rush" his 75 year old antagonist at any moment.)
Realizing that, I shut up and tried to stay between the two groups, expecting the worst and knowing full well that I would NOT let this "coach" attack an elderly gentleman. (I know, the "White Knight Syndrome" in full display.) I got the feeling that the junior of the two "coaches" was beginning to get the same signals I was, as HE stopped yelling and sort of edged his way in between the primary adversaries also. He had to physically "hold" the elder coach once or twice in the continuing "rage".
That's the background of the situation. I'm "packing", got my little .32 auto in my pocket, but I'm also thinking that it would HAVE to be a use of last resort, which meant that either our 75 YO Leader is going to have to take the first blow, or I am. While I might still have the chutzpah to "surprise" some people in a defense of my self from fisticuffs.... neither John nor myself would not last long against either one of them, let alone two.
So there I was, readily committed to allowing myself to be subject to bodily harm before I drew on this jerk... IF I was still capable of it once hit. If I had drawn, I envisioned myself trying to defend my actions in Court because ".. the perp gave every indication of being ready to inflict bodily harm." At which the Prosecuter, if worth his salt at all, would merely observe that the perp did NOT enguage in inflicting "bodily harm" but only, in MY estimation, seemed like he was.
THAT would get me cited for a few "anti-gun" provisions of the Law and get my lisence to carry "pulled"..... at the very least.
So.... Two questions here.
1) Is that the way we have to think? That we have to "take" at least some bodily harm from a perp in a heated arguement situation before we can "draw down", possibly shoot to protect yourself and others FROM that harm?
2) I have written the Pastor of the Church concerning the behavior of this boor. Would you want this character of such little self control and a hair trigger temper as coach for a bunch of 6-8th grader wannabee basketball players?
Oh.... Guess what the entire arguement stemmed from? The coach had just decided to schedule a practice that night and didn't bother to block off the time with the Church Office (as is proper when wishing to use any of the Church Facilities). On the other hand, our group HAD gotten the time alloted to us. The Coach, apparently, was upset because we were setting up for our meeting and disturbed his practice by so doing. When he and the team weren't supposed to be there at all!
All he had to say (other than self admitting that he was in the wrong here) was "Oh. You're scheduled in this evening? Ok, give me a minute and we wil get out of your way." Simple as that. Instead he had to make a Federal Case of it and completely show, not only his "team" but everyone present what a complete and total jerk he is.
What say you guys, on either question posed above?
GG
I arrived into our Church gym/social hall last night to find the current "Leader" of our Christian Men's Group (75 years old, if a day) in a shouting contest (screaming ??) with the two coaches of the Church School Boys Basketball Team. (The older around 35 +/-, the younger late 20s, both fairly physically fit.)
Ever the peacemaker, I tried to insert myself in between the two sets of antagonists to settle things down. (As it was a pretty pitiful display for supposed adults to be enguaged in.) All I got for my trouble was the older coach to "go off" on me and threaten me. I saw immediately that I had stepped into a situation wherein the older "coach" was on the point of losing complete control of himself. (i.e. His body language, rage level of his invective and general demeaner put me well on my guard.... I fully expected this guy to "rush" his 75 year old antagonist at any moment.)
Realizing that, I shut up and tried to stay between the two groups, expecting the worst and knowing full well that I would NOT let this "coach" attack an elderly gentleman. (I know, the "White Knight Syndrome" in full display.) I got the feeling that the junior of the two "coaches" was beginning to get the same signals I was, as HE stopped yelling and sort of edged his way in between the primary adversaries also. He had to physically "hold" the elder coach once or twice in the continuing "rage".
That's the background of the situation. I'm "packing", got my little .32 auto in my pocket, but I'm also thinking that it would HAVE to be a use of last resort, which meant that either our 75 YO Leader is going to have to take the first blow, or I am. While I might still have the chutzpah to "surprise" some people in a defense of my self from fisticuffs.... neither John nor myself would not last long against either one of them, let alone two.
So there I was, readily committed to allowing myself to be subject to bodily harm before I drew on this jerk... IF I was still capable of it once hit. If I had drawn, I envisioned myself trying to defend my actions in Court because ".. the perp gave every indication of being ready to inflict bodily harm." At which the Prosecuter, if worth his salt at all, would merely observe that the perp did NOT enguage in inflicting "bodily harm" but only, in MY estimation, seemed like he was.
THAT would get me cited for a few "anti-gun" provisions of the Law and get my lisence to carry "pulled"..... at the very least.
So.... Two questions here.
1) Is that the way we have to think? That we have to "take" at least some bodily harm from a perp in a heated arguement situation before we can "draw down", possibly shoot to protect yourself and others FROM that harm?
2) I have written the Pastor of the Church concerning the behavior of this boor. Would you want this character of such little self control and a hair trigger temper as coach for a bunch of 6-8th grader wannabee basketball players?
Oh.... Guess what the entire arguement stemmed from? The coach had just decided to schedule a practice that night and didn't bother to block off the time with the Church Office (as is proper when wishing to use any of the Church Facilities). On the other hand, our group HAD gotten the time alloted to us. The Coach, apparently, was upset because we were setting up for our meeting and disturbed his practice by so doing. When he and the team weren't supposed to be there at all!
All he had to say (other than self admitting that he was in the wrong here) was "Oh. You're scheduled in this evening? Ok, give me a minute and we wil get out of your way." Simple as that. Instead he had to make a Federal Case of it and completely show, not only his "team" but everyone present what a complete and total jerk he is.
What say you guys, on either question posed above?
GG