I've been shooting a P85 for over a year now. It's built like a... large... armored vehicle... Before I got it, it spent many, many years banging around the glovebox of my uncle's Bronco... the one he drives all over his farm. It is not an especially pretty gun, but it's taken quite a beating and doesn't show any signs of failure. I've never had any problems firing it, though when my wife was learning how to shoot it she got some FTEs from limp wristing it. It took her a few times to the farm to get the feel for it, but now she really likes it. She's all of 5'2", so not exactly a big girl. It's pretty bulky for carry though, but she hates the little .380s like the LCP. For the average sized woman, I would probably recommend something in between for carry. But as far as being able to handle it, she has no problems at all.