Comparing our towns and NYC and saying either has little to do with each other is absurd. It definitely matters, as my town has brought me up to enjoy freedoms, such as carrying a pocket knife in my pocket with the pocket clip exposed like it was meant to be, and NYC has taught you to bend over. It is the fact that that would not happen in my town, that makes NYC so bad. If all towns acted like NYC, then yea it would not be a big deal.
You have lived in that city way to long to understand what freedom is. Sorry chap

You did get one thing right, I have never been to NYC...nor will I ever go to NYC...ever...I'd rather enjoy the rest of the country where I can be an American proudly without a good chance of being sent to jail. May I ask...exactly what reason does the police have to question someone with a pocket knife? Bikenut put it nicely, in New York City you are presumed guilty until proven innocent. These "charlies" and your post really hammer the nail into that coffin.
So to answer your question, can we/I stop ragging on a city I have never visited, no I will not stop ragging on that ridiculous city. BC1 has opened my eyes to the rest of the State, and while it's not perfect, I get it. I make it clear to reference NYC and not NY.