I carry my Glock 17 all the time, but I'm a big guy. My advice is to try a few pistols out, join a club, lots of guys are more than happy to give you their advice and if you're at the range they wouild probably let you squeeze off afew rounds too. Read all the reviews you can find online (take them with a grain of salt some people just can't be pleased). Foir me a pistol purchase is a big deal, even if I have the dough I gotta get clearance from the tower so I have to make sure I'll be happy with the purchase. Hell I like the window shopping almost as much as the actual shooting. I reccomend a glock for several reasons, they have a fair price tag, they are very durable, easy to break down (to individual parts even), there is a zillion after market accessories to choose from, and most are reasonably priced, depending on where you live you can buy high capacity mags that are preban (New Yorker here so that was important to me). Some products on the market for glocks really seal the deal for me, namely the trigger reset kits. These allow you to replace the stock trigger block with a trainer trigger block that resets itself after each pull. The benefit here is being able to pull the trigger a bazillion times without damaging the gun or spendinga dime on ammo. Accuracy comes down to pulling that trigger for most people, learning your trigger is the single most important aspect to shooting a pistol, IMHO. Anyway there is ofcourse many many questions you'll have to ask yourself but I hope I helped a bit. Good luck and have fun.