the bg380 auto
It has 2 laser buttons 1 on each side, which might even help teach proper handling. When I hold mine at the ready, trigger finger pointed straight out the button is right under the pad of my finger, and I can switch it threw all 3, on, pulse, and off. My buttons were hard to press at 1st, and I just e-mailed S/W asking for new updated buttons and they mailed me new ones free. They are rubber and are easy to put in and take out without have to disassemble. When your looking at it in the store try out the buttons, I've heard that is one of the things to look at, some work better than others, but mine is fine now with the new ones they sent me. The manual safety in rt handed only, but it's a DAO with the normal auto safetys also.
Another thought, I've been teaching my 20 yo daughter to shoot, and she's getting pretty good, but she likes shooting my 9mm Sig P239 more, and says the 380 kicks a little more. She can put 2 in the center ring of the silhouette with either one. The recoil isn’t bad on the bg380, I can rapid fire all 6 into the ring myself.
Steve