First off I highly doubt you were in the military. You have a picture of the 12 year old girl from kickass as your default if you were in the military that is very sad and creepy to say at the least. Im gonna take a guess if you were in the military you were either navy or air force cause I have tons of marine friends who would never put a little girl as their picture its just really gay. And you prolly have ptsd from god knows what so you drink alot and beat your wife and kids. Until one day the were tired of it so she left you and took the kids and you havent seen them since.