I'm getting old enough to really feel recoil... my pps 9mm is the softest perceived recoil i ever felt,,,none-the-less, after a box or two at the range, my finger joints, wrists and even elbows become inflamed and very painful....My doctor is an avid shooter,,,and equally as old as I am, and has opted for a bersa T22 which he says runs like a clock with CCI Velocitors. He, as I intend to practice placement to softer vital zones and head, throat and groin shots.
He did try the 32 walther his son has and may also go that route as its got a bit more reliability and punch. The bersa 32 has more handle to hang onto, and goes 10 rounds and a tad longer barrel for more velocity, but, its a bit bigger for CCW ... oh decision s decisions!