having owned glocks, XD's, PX4, and several brands of 1911's.
I will now always recommend a 1911
if you need more ammo per clip, then a Para or STI
Agree that if you want a G27 (my daily carry) and the wife is concerned about a "safety", understand that if you are not going to monitor a child when a gun is laying around then you should wait because the best safety is between your ears. If you do not have a carry permit (and your state affords you the right to get one) do so and keep it with you at all times or always either out of reach or in a gun safe. I have Gun Vault brand safe that holds my SR9c and spare mag but my G27 stays on my hip all day and on my night stand at night. Can't sleep without my baby by my side. Don't get a cheap gun just so it has a bunch of buttons and levers to fiddle with. Read the other forums about safeties and split-second reaction times and you might want to stick with a Glock or similar system. Even though my Ruger has a slide lock safety I don't ever use it. It has a trigger safe system like the Glock and since it stays in the safe until my wife goes out (hers) I don't worry about little hands (20-month old). Happy shopping!
Here in Fla if your kids get a hold of one of your guns and something happens, "Its Your Fault"!!!