Here's the basic circular logic being presented here:
Question: Would you feel a sense of obligation to disclose to your good friends that you're carrying before entering their home?
Answer: No, I never tell anyone I'm carrying.
Comment: No one is allowed in my home while carrying, and dammit, I mean NO ONE!
Suggestion: Perhaps some signage informing all comers of that fact would preclude any misunderstandings, hurt feelings, challenges to trust etc. etc. etc.
Response to suggestion: Nope, I never make my security plans known to anyone!
Response to that response: BINGO! Neither do I! That's why I never tell anyone I'm carrying!
Third generation response: Yeah, well, you damn well better tell ME if you come to MY home or you'll be guilty of trampling on MY property rights and breaking the trust of ME, your oh-so-good-friend!
Fourth gen response: Dude, if you would've just told me how you felt about guns in your home, it never would've become a bone of contention between us.
Ex-friend says: I NEVER tell ANYONE about my security plans! Got it??
Of course, I'm paraphrasing here and exaggerating the tone of some of the posts for satirical effect, but really, the circular logic is blatant, and it's not coming from the side that says they'd leave without argument the instant they were made aware of their friend's rules.
And I neither implied nor stated any "desire" to bring an "unwanted" gun onto anyone's property. I carry everywhere I go, period. I never spontaneously disclose to anyone that I'm carrying, period. If the property owner doesn't like signs and thinks it's incumbent upon his visitors to disclose everything they have on their person before entering his home, our respective rules for how we conduct ourselves pretty much cancels each other out since he won't disclose his rules and I won't disclose the contents of my waistband. So cool, we go on just exactly like how we've been going while this deep, trusting, abiding friendship was developing; blissfully ignorant of who each other is and what we expect/demand of each other in each other's homes! Ain't friendship just grand? LOL God, this is ridiculous.