The XR9-s I have is a used pistol. The original owner filled out the warranty card, but never mailed it. I contacted them and they told me they had put about 1000 rounds through it.
The XR45-s I have is new from the factory. I have only had the chance to put 150 rounds through it.
Conventional wisdom on the Boberg is to give it at least 500 rounds before you can consider it "broken in". After that happens, I will reconsider the 45 over the 9. The fact is that as small as they are, neither is exactly "light", but with the exception of my Grandfather's 1930's S&W Colt Outdoorsman, no other gun I have ever shot seemed to want to hit exactly where I aimed it more than my Bobergs. This "trust" is why I have it as my concealed carry. But I have to admit, the hole at the front of the XR45-s appears HUGE at the front of such a little gun.
Below is about an hours worth of collecting info on some of the popular cc guns. This info is gleaned off various websites and "SHOULD" be pretty accurate. Your mileage may vary. Sorry if I left your favorite gun off the list.
Listed from heaviest to lightest
Beretta Px4 Storm SubCompact 26.1 oz. 13+1, 9mm - 10+1, 40 S&W
Springfield XD 26.0 oz. 13+1, 9mm - 9+1, 40 S&W
Ruger SP101 revolver 2.25" barrel 25.0 oz. 5, .357 magnum
Kimber Ultra Carry II 25.0 oz. 7+1, .45 ACP
Boberg XR45-s 22.5 oz. 6+1, .45 ACP
Walther CCP 22.4 oz. 8+1, 9mm
Glock 30s 20.3 oz. 10+1, .45 ACP
Taurus 605PLY 20.2 oz. 5, .357 magnum
Beretta BU9 Nano 19.8 oz. 6+1, 9mm
Taurus 709 20.0 oz. 7+1, 9mm
Kahr PM40 17.7 oz. 5+1, 40 S&W
Boberg XR9-s 17.4 oz. 7+1, 9mm
Kimber Solo Carry DC 17.0 oz. 6+1, 9mm
Ruger LCR revolver 17.2 oz. 5, 9mm - 5, .357 magnum
Sig Sauer P238 15.2 oz. 6+1, .380 ACP
Ruger LCR revolver 13.5 oz. 5, 38 Special +P
S&W M&P Bodyguard 12.0 oz. 6+1, .380 ACP
Beretta 21a “Bobcat” 11.8 oz. 6+1, .22 LR
Colt Mustang 11.5 oz. 6+1, .380 ACP
Beretta Pico 11.5 oz. 6+1, .380 ACP
Kahr CW380 10.2 oz. 6+1, .380 ACP
Ruger LCP 09.7 oz. 6+1, .380 ACP