I believe that as well, but just remember, if you are carrying concealed you are not a police officer. You have the right to protect yourself and others if under serious threat. If all the perp wants is money and he threatens no one, be observant, be compliant and give him the money.
It is rarely that simple. For one thing, unless you're a mind-reader, you cannot know what "all the perp wants," be it money, your shoes, a roll with your ol' lady, or heck, maybe he just gets a kick out of torture. If he's armed and he's threatening me or mine in any way, I'm not waiting to find what is "all he wants." Now, if he has the drop on me, of course I'm waiting until I can reasonably make a move while minimizing the chances of being noticed, but waiting for a tactical advantage is very different than waiting to see whether he's out for money or out for blood. If he makes it known that he's armed, that's good enough for me, he means to harm me or mine in the process of trying to victimize me/us in whatever other ways.
This issue of waiting was covered extensively in a thread several months ago about a shooting that happened in Spartanburg, SC. It was an interesting study in how many here who participated in the thread think about their responsibilities, duty, or lack of same when danger is threatening, but shots haven't been fired yet. It's a long thread, but what sets it apart from other "good-guy/bad-guy" threads, is that the good-guy shooter showed up to set the record straight on why he fired when he fired.
Check it out if you're interested.
On the OP here, either I misunderstood Bruce's meaning, or everybody else seems to have. I think he's saying that he doesn't understand why anyone would say it's wrong to say that the answer to a bad guy with a gun is a good guy with a gun. I don't think he was saying it's wrong to say that, he doesn't understand why anyone else would say it's wrong to say that. I had to read it a couple of times because it was written kinda clumsily, and that said, maybe I did misunderstand and everyone else read it correctly, but that's what I think anyway, and if I read it right, I agree with him.
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