I agree with you, kelcarry. In this case it was just "stuff" and I personally wouldn't find it worth killing over.
I don't want anyone to misunderstand me, I'm not arguing the older gentleman didn't have the right to protect his property, nor would I judge any of you for protecting yours as you saw fit. It's just that I don't think I'd personally be willing to draw my weapon unless I felt my life was at stake. If I walk into my residence and someone is there stealing stuff, or if I wake up to hear an intruder, you're damned right I will be armed and ready to pull the trigger; by that point confrontation is almost certainly unavoidable. If I woke up and heard or saw someone rummaging through my vehicle, I'd call 911, wait and watch. If they made a move to enter my residence, I would be prepared to defend myself.
I know, I know... you could argue that I don't know if there is anyone else out there, perhaps another BG already trying to enter the premises and I don't know who's armed and who's not. You may argue it's best to shoot first and ask questions later. There are a whole lot of "what ifs" and the situation can change drastically with a single variable. I've never drawn my gun on someone (and I honestly hope I never, ever have to). I'm also not currently a homeowner, nor is my vehicle especially nice. I don't have a wife and kids to worry about. My perspective is obviously going to be different from those of you in different situations.
Booga asked, "is there such a thing as a good bad guy?" I don't think the answer to that question is as black-and-white as we may like it to be. In some cases perhaps the "BG" isn't really all that bad. I don't advocate being soft on criminals, and I understand and totally agree that by even attempting to steal someone else's property this kid was breaking the law and falls under the "BG" moniker. However, what if that 19-year-old was one of your sons, making an incredibly bad decision in an otherwise decent life? Good people can make stupid choices, especially when they're young and don't have a great deal of life experience. Add in peer pressure, maybe a poor home situation or some kind of emotional trauma like a parent dying, and you have a formula for a very crappy decision-making process. The bad guy in a case like that may just be a guy, making bad decisions. Saying, "all BGs are evil and wrong and I will exercise my right to defend my property with deadly force no matter what" makes about as much sense to me as the "zero tolerance" gun and drug policies in force in our public school system; that is to say, none at all. We have good heads on our shoulders, and we should use them... even if other people are not.
None of that excuses the act mentioned in the OP, and it doesn't put the older gentleman defending his property in the wrong. The kid obviously made a series of poor decisions, but that doesn't mean he's instantly a hardened career criminal who will only ever be out to deprive honest people of the fruits of their labors. He needs to pay for any crimes he committed, but not necessarily with his life.
I don't think you're a "big pussy" for stating you'd at least be given pause, JJ, were you put into the same situation. I personally believe you can be morally justified in shooting and killing someone who threatens you, but also believe you can be saddened it came to that, and have sympathy for the life you were forced to end. These things are not mutually exclusive.[/QUOTE
Thank you so much for that post. That was as good an explanation as anybody will ever read about the correct mindset for protection and personal defense. This should be required reading at this site, and in CCW classes!
WE, as CCW holders, are not "associate" cops or vigilantes. And having the "right" to shoot someone doesn't give you a moral/religious "right" to end someone's life. There are young folks out there that have been influenced by misguided people, and those young folks need someone to show them the LIGHT. They are still young and most of them, not all, are still salvageable. I would hate to snuff out of the life of someone that GOD isn't finished with yet. Remember, there is a difference between "KILL" and "MURDER".