I am a first timer too, and I think I rushed into purchasing a gun. Rather than taking the time to try out friend's firearms, I did research online, and purchased a gun for concealed carry. The problem, now that I have the gun and several holsters for it, is that with my normal wardrobe, I can't seem to hide the gun well enough. (it's a doublestack magazine, and is a bit thick for a concealed pistol). I am now thinking I may have to go back and spend more money on a different gun that will carry easier in my day-to-day attire. (I am now considering a comact .380 or subcompact 9mm - either the Ruger LCP or LC9). I can't speak for these guns, since I do not own one or have fired one, but the only advice I can offer here is that you definitely don't want to rush into getting a gun. Take your time to look at carry options and holsters available, and see how they fit your clothing first.